Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Your Bank Account & Choices

A friend of mine sent this to me via email and I'm sure you all have read something similar. It's special to me because I used to teach a class about on supervisory skills and depositing into your trust account with employees. Also I taught a stress course and one of the big topics was about choices. This rendention made me think of those things and it is something that I hope I don't ever forget.

YOUR BANK ACCOUNT Wish I could give credit to the author but I don't know who it is.
This is AWESOME....something we should all remember!
A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed each morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably combed and shaved perfectly, even though he is legally blind, moved to a nursi ng home today.. His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary. After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready.
As he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been hung on his window.
'I love it,' he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having just been presented with a new puppy.
'Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait.'
'That doesn't have anything to do with it,' he replied.
'Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged .. it's how I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it. 'It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed and be thankful for the ones that do.

Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open, I'll focus on the new day and all the happy memories I've stored away. Just for this time in my life.

Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.

So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank account of memories!
Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank. I am still depositing.

Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less..

Bet you thought from the title it was going to be about my dwindling finances! Ha! fooled you.

Later...

1 comment:

Teresa Brooks said...

Love it...thanks for sharing.